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Tips for Preparing Children to Attend a Funeral

February 21, 2022 • Teri Vila-Caballero

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The death of a loved one is usually difficult for all family and friends. The person who is responsible for making final arrangements typically needs to begin looking for funeral homes in Miami Beach, FL shortly after someone passes away. But children are in a unique place after a loved one passes away.

The death of a grandparent, parent, sibling, or other close family member can be stressful and traumatic for children who may not understand what is going on. Use the following tips to help you prepare children to attend the funeral of a loved one:

Explain Death

Most children do not know much about death. This is especially true for young children. When a loved one passes away, it is always in your best interest to talk to your child/children and explain what death is. If you and your family are religious, you can incorporate information about the afterlife of your loved one.

Explaining death to a child is not fun, nor is it anything that most people want to do. But when children understand what death is, they can usually process what is happening a little bit easier.

Answer Questions

Kids are sponges who look for answers from adults. When a family member dies, it is not uncommon for kids to have questions. While you’re grieving, answering questions may be difficult. However, answering the questions that children have can make attending the funeral less stressful. You may also feel some relief when talking about the death of a loved one when talking with your child/children.

Outline What to Expect

A funeral is hard for most people to deal with. A funeral of a close loved one is even more difficult. When a child is attending the funeral of a grandparent, parent, sibling, or cousin, it is essential to tell the child what to expect.

Knowing what to expect will not make grieving easier. But having an idea about how a funeral will proceed will be very helpful. Many kids, especially older ones, do well when they know what to expect in a bad situation.

Be Compassionate

Everyone reacts their own way when a loved one dies. The reaction of children can vary from one kid to another. It is not uncommon for some kids to have an extreme reaction to the death of a close loved one.cremation services in North Miami, FL Don’t expect a child to be able to process death the same way that an adult can.

Compassion, empathy, and love can make a big difference when talking to a child about a funeral. When you are deeply grieving the loss of someone you love, connecting with your child or children can make a big difference.

After the death of a loved one, your first step will probably involve looking at different funeral homes in Miami Beach, FL to hire for final arrangements. But, don’t forget to communicate with the children in your life so you can help them process the loss of a beloved family member.

Teri Vila-Caballero

Teri Vila-Caballero

Teri Vila-Caballero is the Pre Need Director at Ferdinand Funeral Homes & Crematory. She joined the team in 2012 to fulfill her calling to serve our community.

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